"Joining in appreciation of the sex object du jour without having to be gay or bisexual." is problematic
This is pretty othering to those of us who are bisexual or gay of any gender.
- I'm bi, and the person who originally wrote that was bi. I think the point is that when workplace bonding involves appreciating a "sex object du jour" who is a woman, this includes the majority of men (those who are het or gay), but others the majority of women (those who are het).
- If you have a better way to phrase it, please go ahead and try. But I think that as per articles like Sexualized environment, heteronormative displays of het male sexuality are a way that women in tech fields get othered that need to be discussed. 126.96.36.199 21:33, July 31, 2011 (UTC)