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* Flippant references to rape - sexual assault survivors are everywhere, and may particularly not appreciate being reminded of that because someone lost badly at a computer game (for example).
* (Potentially) illegal stuff such as threats of violence (what crosses the border from asshattery to illegal threat varies a lot), slander, libel, hate speech against minority groups
* Incitement to suicide - this is straight-up bullying
* Sexuality-shaming slurs and terms such as slut, bugger, cocksucker, wanker
* Bitch
* Cunt (when referring to things other than female genitals)
* Body-shaming slurs such as fat, ugly, hairy, skin-and-bones, bald...
* Ableist slurs such as crazy, schizo, psycho, retarded, unmedicated, autistic, lame, etc.
** Don't use them directly (e.g. "crazy" for someone with a mental illness)
** Don't use them indirectly (e.g. "lame" for a disappointing night out)
** Be very cautious using them neutrally or positively if you are not [[Guide for foul-mouthed feminists#Being reclaimed|part of the group in question]] (e.g. "crazy" as an intensifier as used by someone without mental illness; "She's crazy talented")
* ([[Intersectionality|if your feminism has room for body-shaming and/or ableism, it's bullshit]])
* Misgendering - not for cisgender people, not for transgender people, not for people of any other kind of gender.
* Cuckold & derivatives - this is predicated on a relationship model of subjugation rather than equal partnership, where cheating is not a unilateral violation of relationship agreements by one party, but a failure of the oppressor to adequately oppress.
===Being reclaimed===
[https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Reappropriation Reclaiming] is done by people who are in the group who are disparaged by the word. '''If you aren't in the group, it's best to refrain from using it.''' If you are in the group, use your own best judgement but be aware that continued disparaging use will slow the progress of reclaiming. In any case, use of these terms to offend does not further the goals of reclaiming.
* Cunt - as a term to describe one's genitals, not as a description of a person.<ref>See on Wikipedia: [https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Cunt:_A_Declaration_of_Independence Cunt: A Declaration of Independence]</ref>
* Queer - community-dependent: some people have enough trauma associated with it to not want to hear it again, even from in-community.
* Loaded racial terms
* Fat
* Crazy
** pooproomba
** shit hits the fan
** shart
* Fart
** fart-huffing
** shart
* Piss
** piss off
** Pissant
** pisscouch
** piss up a rope
* Smegma (which can affect [[wikipedia:Smegma|all mammals with genitals]])
* Barf
* Earwax
* Snot
=== Anatomical===
*Snake
*Slug
*Jackal
=== Surrealist ===
* step on a lego
* lick a lamppost
* chew a hammer
* nuke
=== Other ===
* chewed up Lego
* useless potato peeling
== Footnotes ==
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