The use of inclusive language in documentation and other communications is one way that geeky communities can better include women. Reading a document where every pronoun is male can be like nails on a chalkboard to female readers.
Avoid Gendered Pronouns
A lot of discussion of nonsexist language centres around pronouns. The issue occurs when male pronouns ("he", "him", "his") are used in circumstances which describe either men or women. For example:
- "Each developer needs to check out the source code onto his computer."
- "If you have a problem with the way the GM is running the game, talk to him."
Alternatives to male pronouns include:
- "His/her", "he/she", "s/he" etc.
- Singular "they", eg. "check out the source code onto their computer".
- Alternation: when giving examples, as in a technical book, alternate men and women as the case studies
Man is Not Generic
Gendered terms like "man", "men", "dude" or "guys" are often used by people who say they mean to include women as well. However, the terms are not inclusive. Douglas Hofstadter's A Person Paper on Purity in Language clearly illustrates the issue.
Alternatives to "guys" include: folks, everyone, people, y'all. Or you can just say morning/hi/hello/greetings, without adding "guys".
Incidents
But it's hard!
People sometimes complain about the perceived difficulty of writing in nonsexist language. Lots of communication habits are deeply ingrained: changing the way you write or speak does sometimes take extra effort. With practice, it does get easier.
Grammarians sometimes argue that pronouns like "they" and "their" are plural and thus are poor substitutes for singular third person pronouns. Good arguments to the contrary include:
- The linguistics blog Language Log has posted many times on singular "they", here's a summary statement and a grammarian's analysis.
- Singular "they" and the many reasons why it's correct
If you can't bring yourself to accept "they" and "their" as singular pronouns, think of it this way: if you're going to choose between exclusive language that normalizes the idea that women don't belong and misused plural pronouns, the latter is a lot more attractive.
External resources
- The standard text on the subject of non-sexist language is Miller and Swift's "Handbook of Nonsexist Writing". It's under several ISBNs, but the most common are: out of print but this is the one found in libraries currently in print
- A short guide based on Miller and Swift from University College Cork
- Gender-Neutral Pronoun FAQ, including history (and promotion of newly-minted neutral singular pronouns)